Matters of the Heart
submitted 8 months 11 days 23 hours ago by: HawaOmar : 5 commentsOk, so a couple of Q's here...need some insight...
First of all, what is the dating scene all abt - would u b ok with dating several ppl at one time and if, in the initial stages, u get "attached" to someone, would you be ok with him/her dating other ppl or cut loose and prevent further heartache? Or maybe the "several ppl at one time thing" is just normal in the US?
Also, do u believe in unconditional love? If so or not, why? Shed some light if possible...too often to me, it seems as though one only 'loves' if one has something to gain materially and it has been said that such love has "evolved" --- more like disappeared..."until death do we part" has been replaced with "until divorce do we part"...I apologize for the cynism, I just don't see it anymore and was wonderingwhat ur take is on it...
What does love mean to u?
Thanx, guys! :)
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- First of all, what is the dating scene all abt........Dating somehow gives a wrong meaning. What we are looking for is a life companion. Dating somehow gives an impression of time pass.
- would u b ok with dating several ppl at one time.........NOP
- and if, in the initial stages, u get "attached" to someone, would you be ok with him/her dating other ppl or cut loose and prevent further heartache?........Once you found the one u love, why go for others.
- Or maybe the "several ppl at one time thing" is just normal in the US?......................Even in US it is not normal. Yes they do without telling the other partner. But it is not considered right even in states.
- Also, do u believe in unconditional love? If so or not, why? Shed some light if possible...too often to me, it seems as though one only 'loves' if one has something to gain materially and it has been said that such love has "evolved" --- more like disappeared..."until death do we part" has been replaced with "until divorce do we part"...I apologize for the cynism, I just don't see it anymore and was wonderingwhat ur take is on it..............There is un-conditional. It's just that you need to get out of materialism, marriage etc to be really love someone un-conditionally without any strings attached to ones feelings.
- What does love mean to u?......................It means everything to me personally. What else is there in life to live for.
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would u b ok with dating several ppl at one time and if, in the initial stages, u get "attached" to someone, would you be ok with him/her dating other ppl or cut loose and prevent further heartache
No its not right thing to do but most people do it in US.
Also, do u believe in unconditional love? If so or not, why? Shed some light if possible...too often to me, it seems as though one only 'loves' if one has something to gain materially and it has been said that such love has "evolved" --- more like disappeared..."until death do we part" has been replaced with "until divorce do we part"...I apologize for the cynism, I just don't see it anymore and was wonderingwhat ur take is on it...
Yes i do believe in unconditional love but that can not exist between the creation the unconditional love can be only the love of god with creation where there is nothing material to gain or lose.Creation need something and creator doesn't.
I always find the story of the 'Taj Mahal' to be sooo amazing...it gives me goosebumps..wish I had someone who loved me half as much...it's breath-takin n awe-inspiring :)
Yes, half as much wealth too will be required :)